Be honest. What you want is for a man to "see" you, "hear" you. We all want to feel special and beautiful and loved beyond measure. Lovely lady - this is normal. Sometimes we don't even realize that the words we use are actually pushing a man away instead of inviting him in so that he can see how to make us happy. Make it easy for him. Here are the 4 Phrases I learned to use that gave my Knight clear insight into what I needed...and to feel like he was my Hero. Just where he needed to be.